Tips for Teachers
Survey Students 
Ask students, "what is one thing you want me to know about you?" or "what is your favorite thing to do outside of school?" 
Use the 2x10 Strategy
Spend 2 minutes per day for 10 days in a row talking with a student about anything they want to talk about. This ongoing relationship-building helps a child see that you care about their well-being and interests.
Build Empathy by Sharing Personal Stories
When teachers share their personal stories and experiences with students, it provides a powerful opportunity to build trusting, authentic relationships. Students are more comfortable sharing their experiences when a teacher has modeled vulnerability in this way. When students share their experiences, be sure to listen with curiosity and without judgment.
Never Use Teacher Time as a Behavior Incentive
In order to develop a trusting relationship, a child must view their teacher's care as unconditional. When time with a teacher of choice is used as a behavior incentive, the child may see their relationship with the teacher as conditional. This can trigger a trauma response, especially for children who have experienced neglect.

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