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Husbands are commanded to love their wives. But do you know what really makes your wife feel loved? Are you tired of missed cues and confusing signals? Everyone has a primary love language-quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch. In The Five Love Languages Mens Edition, #1 New York Times bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides husbands in identifying, understanding, and speaking their wifes love language. Each chapter concludes with ten simple and practical ideas for expressing that love language to your wife. Youll both enjoy taking the new love languages assessment and building a lasting, loving marriage. Includes a promotional code to gain exclusive online access to the new comprehensive love languages assessment. Over 225,000 copies sold! Mar 06, 2022 Adam rated it it was amazing Words of affirmation: I know, Im with you, how can I help?Dont make demands, make requests. Demands kill love while requests let it show. Show encouragement and support. I know if you decide to try this you will be a success. Dont worry about cost, we will make this work. Be kind, if someone shares hurt and pain with you even if they use hurtful words towards you; forgive them and try to understand the source of their pain. Dont try to prove your point of view. A soft answer turns away ange Words of affirmation: I know, Im with you, how can I help?Dont make demands, make requests. Demands kill love while requests let it show. Show encouragement and support. I know if you decide to try this you will be a success. Dont worry about cost, we will make this work. Be kind, if someone shares hurt and pain with you even if they use hurtful words towards you; forgive them and try to understand the source of their pain. Dont try to prove your point of view. A soft answer turns away anger. You cant erase the past, ask forgiveness and give forgiveness to your partner. Forgiveness is the way of love.Give specific compliments. That color looks great on you, It really impressed me how you spoke with that woman, give words of encouragement to file dreams. Offer a deal where you are on the losing end. Ill clean the attic if you make your amazing apple pieListening: make eye contact the whole time. Dont listen and do something else (if youre in the middle of something be honest and say I will in 10 minutes), listen for feelings (what emotion is your spouse expressing; confirm with her it sounds like youre feeling x because y), pay attention to body language, DO NOT interruptQuality Time: have meaningful discussions. Partners should share 3 details of their day at a minimum for healthy communication. In addressing quality time respect if the partner likes to get up early or go to bed later for the activities. Sacrifice something you love for the activity to send a powerful message you love her more than other things, make a list of top 10 moments of memories as a couple and then compare to her list and then use the overlapping matches to create new memories, be attentive, designate times and places for togetherness (Not all time together needs to be quality time), if your partner is usually busy you should occasionally do 1 or more of her dreaded chores to free her up for quality time, find an activity you like to do that compliments what she enjoys (find joint activities), dont let all your conversations be to do lists, surprise her with 2 tickets to a movie she wants to see and then take her to dinner and listen to her review, listen closely when she talks about favorite childhood memories and try to recreate that for her, take car trips to promote conversation even if its just to a restaurant, being silent together on a walk can be good, save a probing question before bed, talk while doing chores, money for babysitters is money well spent.Gifts: 12 days of gifts, photographs, now and later (like knitting or seeds), gift of a day (take a day off and do everything she wants to do), give her a complimentary gift to other gifts you give her like pens if she collects paper, give unexpected gifts, dont get upset while she shops for gifts, get friends she hasnt heard from in awhile to send gifts for a birthday, get her a star, get homemade coupons for chores, offer a gift of your presence while she is having a very difficult time, hide a gift in her luggage, jewelryActs of service: do a chore she has given up thinking you will help with (surprise her with it), do what she asks without having her repeat herself, get up 30 min earlier or later for a week to plan and perform acts of service, do something she would never expect, make dinner and clean up, let her choose a service to pay to have done, think of frequent complaints and go overboard to prevent them from happening again (overstock toilet paper), make yourself accessible in times of excessive grief like death of a pet, dont always announce what you do and see how long it takes her to notice, if shes always rushed find a way to save her a few minutes like let her use the bathroom first, get friends to help with something she wants that you cant do on your own, if your wife enjoys what you do for her work together to do acts of service for others (also can be quality time), serve someone she loves, run interference for her while she watches her favorite show (take care of the kids)Physical Touch: make touching a normal part of your routine (play with her hair, touch her shoulder as she is in the kitchen), kiss and embrace when coming and going, change your pattern sit in a new spot, sleep on the other side of the bed, sit in a different spot at a restaurant (next to each other or on opposite sides), find out where she likes to be touched on her body, try letting body message, recall the thrill of physical touch from when you started dating and try to recreate it, drive to a scenic place and put your arm around her, at picnics do the physical challenges, start a collection of songs about touch and play it to be reminded of her love language, message sore parts of her body, select tactile gifts, when she is sick touch her neck and temple or forehead, thank her with touch, when touching her dont speak, write messages on her back and see if she can guess itDo a daily check on each others love tank. Ask on a scale of 1-10 how full are you? Then ask what can I do now to help fill it up.To repair a damaged relationship: Tell your partner you have been thinking about your relationship and would like to do a better job of meeting their needs. What can I do to help make you feel more loved? Whether they give suggestions or not try to address their love language for 6 months. At the end of each month ask for feedback on how youre doing and further suggestions. If she gives positive feedback with a week and then ask a request. If she doesnt do it wait another month and try again. ...more

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